7 Things Successful Sales People Never Say

What’s really interesting about we humans is the fact that, even though we don’t like to admit it, we are judgmental beings.

Often we don’t view ourselves as being judgmental; we consider ourselves to be realists. A situation occurs and we decide whether it is right or wrong, good or bad, black or white. Where do those ideas come from? From our programming and conditioning, that’s where.

We are conditioned to identify what we consider to be right based on our experiences, our values, our standards and our rules. Every other person on the planet has had different experiences from you, and so will have different values, different beliefs and, hence, different judgments.

For instance, when you say, “You shouldn’t do that!” you are coming from your own judgments and rationale. You’re weighing up the situation, determining what you would do in a similar spot and then balance up whether what is done instead lives up to your standards or rules.

It’s natural. It’s human. It’s ‘us’ being ‘us’.

So, are there some things that salespeople should never say? Isn’t that being judgmental just asking the question?

Well, in a way, yes. However, when you see the ideas below, you will probably agree these are things that shouldn’t be said because clients and prospects will probably judge us negatively if we did. And that’s the main reason. Not because we consider them to be right, but because the majority of our clients would say they are wrong.

Let’s face it, all clients use judgment to determine if the like you, believe you, have confidence in you and trust you. What you need to do is to lower the resistance by shying away from phrases or words that will cause judgments to rise up in the first place.

Take a look at some of the things salespeople should never find coming out of their mouths:

– “Trust me!” Really? Do you need to tell me that? Your words are worthless if you don’t prove trustworthy. It’s pointless asking someone to trust you if you haven’t given them reasons to do so. Demonstrate you are trustworthy; don’t tell them!

– “How are you today?” after opening a cold call. Please! Leave that to the slimy, smarmy toothy-grinned salespeople of yester-year, who thought that it built rapport with a stranger. These days it screams out the message “I AM GOING TO SELL YOU SOMETHING!!!”

– “What will it take to earn your business?” Err…give me a free sample? This antiquated question lost it’s power when the first transaction took place in Antique-Land. It puts so much pressure on the prospect because it’s asking them to do all the work. They have to think about what ‘deal’ they would take. Instead you should be building the value so that the prospect sees that accepting your offer is the best thing to do for them and/or their business.

“This is a limited offer” yeah right! This smacks of all those furniture store closing-down offers, only to spring back, phoenix-like, from the ashes of despair, making customers feel cheated. If it really is a limited offer, build value first before you discuss price. Limited offers come and go…they don’t have the impact they may have had in the 20th century (such a looong time ago!).

- “I give you my word” Hah! The cheese monster rises from his lair again. Another is “My word is my bond”. If you have to say these sentences, you are thinking words have a greater affect on people than deeds. Prospects want to know WHY they should trust you. Just saying it doesn’t make it right or true.

“What do you think?” Eh? Surely there’s nothing wrong with this one? After all, isn’t asking for the opinion of the prospect a good way of discovering their needs and wants. Yes, of course, but this isn’t the way to do it. The question creates logical triggers. It’s better to ask how the person feels about the situation. Thinking is rational, left-brained in its drivers. ‘How do you feel about this?’ gets the person to go deeper into their thought patterns, and connects to the emotional decision-making process.

– “Let me be honest with you!” What? You mean you weren’t being honest  before? I know that seems far-fetched, but the subliminal message that gets through is that everything I’ve said up to now is questionable…I am going to be honest with you from now on!

Successful people don’t say these phrases because they don’t want to give the other person even a glimmer of a reason to doubt them or question their professionalism. Think things through before you say things that might cause you to regret it afterwards.

Happy Selling!

Sean McPheat
Managing Director
MTD Sales Training

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The Key Sales Skills Of The Modern Sales Professional

The global situation we face means that literally everything has changed in the last few years. Change is the only constant, and businesses who have fallen by the wayside lay as epitaphs to the inability of many organisations to recognise how they have to adapt to the real world of today and the future.

The sales profession is no different. If you are still using techniques that were designed, developed or conceived more than five years ago, then prepare for some sobering news; the buyer who bought from you when you used those tactics five years ago doesn’t exist anymore!

Instead, just like a phoenix rising from the ashes, a new buyer has risen up, one who is business-savvy, knows what they want and how they want it, and has little time to debate the rights and wrongs as to whether your tired, old sales techniques and processes are still relevant.

We need to not only be up-to-speed with this new world order (which, by the way, will continue to change at an ever-increasing and faster pace); we also need to be one, two and ten steps ahead of how the new buyers are thinking, proactively driving the direction of how businesses will need to react to their competition in the future.

The modern sales professional needs to be aware of how today’s changes are affecting the way their buyers buy. If you’re not ahead of the game when it comes to how technology is driving the sales processes of the future, you’ll be floundering on the beach of poverty, scraping a living from the fossils of yesterday’s crumbs from so-called loyal customers.

So, what are the sales skills you need to thrive, not just today, but long into the future?

1. Know The World Your Customer Is Trading In

Yes, you need to be an expert in your product and services and the benefits they bring to your customers and prospects. But that’s the baseline, the minimum you need to know.

You also need to know the industries you work in better than your customers do, the competition your customer is facing daily, and the challenges your customer will be facing in the future.

Customers want a sales person who is an expert in everything there is to know about the products, services and market they are working in. The buyer also wants the sales person to educate them, to teach them where their future opportunities will be, what markets will be available to them and what they need to do to achieve growth.

Having a salesperson with this background knowledge develops a partnership instead of a transactional relationship.

2. Lead The Charge To Embrace The Digital Customer

Today, nearly 60% of B2B buying steps are completed before buyers connect with a salesperson. That’s a staggering statistic! Yet B2B companies are not leading the charge to embrace the digital customer. They are not setting up online sales channels. They are not exploring social selling solutions. They are not adopting marketing automation programs. They are not outfitting their sales teams with tablets and mobile phones. They are not implementing sales enablement solutions.

That’s why you see so many sales cultures that are stuck in a rut, and so many sales teams that are failing to meet revenue goals. You need to become social-media-savvy in every sense of the words. Buyers have shifted from being people who need to be told everything to people who know more than you!

When you call a prospect, they can have your company website, your LinkedIn profile, your Facebook Business page and your You-Tube channel up on their screens in seconds.

If you’re not thinking the way your prospects do at the technological level, stand by to be shot out of the competitive waters.

3. Don’t Talk About Your Products; Talk About How You Can Help Your Customer Build Their Future Business

The majority of people we meet don’t want to hear sales pitches anymore. They probably know what you sell, as it’s not that much different from your competitor’s anyway.

Instead of trying to blind prospects with facts and information about your products, the modern sales professional discusses the business challenges that the prospect is facing. They discuss the business world that is affecting their markets. They identify the pain points the business is experiencing. They challenge the mind-sets the prospect is working within. And they build a vision of a better future by using the salesperson’s products and services.

If the prospect’s world cannot be changed for the better by using your products and services, what are you doing there? Surely they would be better off with you as a business partner than with the company they are already using?

Then prove that point.

People make decisions based on the changes those decisions will make for them in the future. They don’t buy products; they buy the profits or benefits those products will bring them.

Modern sales professionals don’t pitch products. They discuss how the future results will be brighter if only the prospect’s business used their solutions!

4. Relentlessly Build Your Knowledge In Areas That Will Benefit You

Sales is your profession, the career you have chosen for yourself. It’s what brings home the bacon, keeps you motivated and creates your lifestyle.

Modern sales professionals know that if they are to not only survive in today’s business world, but also thrive and succeed, they need to have a comprehensive, proactive process for keeping up-to-date with the changes that are happening within their field.

Let me ask you a question; how many books, CDs or DVDs on sales have you read, listened to or watched in the last year?

If you are serious about your career, your personal development and your future earnings, you need to take researching your chosen field seriously.

Your library needs to be up-to-date. Sales books written more than five years ago will not have the necessary information on social media and technology that you need today.

You need CDs that inspire you on your car, plane and train journeys. Spending two hours a day in your car listening to the radio or music CDs is a wasted opportunity. Buy, lease, rent, download or borrow CDs or MP3s that can give your knowledge the boost to drive your performance and keep your motivation in tip-top condition.

Watch DVDs on selling from the masters of their trade. It will provide you with information and knowledge that will assist your prospects and new business partners to develop their business.

Don’t leave the building of your skills and talents to the mercy of training courses or sporadic coaching from your manager. Like successful sales professionals of today, take personal responsibility for developing your skill-sets by listening to and reading about people who have been there and succeeded.


These sales skills will allow you to prove your worth to your prospects and customers alike. Keep yourself in shape by following them and you’ll see the opportunities open up for you now and, more specifically, in the future.

Happy Selling!

Sean McPheat

Managing Director

MTD Sales Training


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