Written by Sean McPheat | 

For some reason, an intrinsic part of human nature is to desire that which is forbidden. It seems that whatever it is that we cannot, or should not have, are the very things we want most. Take anything, and deny someone of their right, ability or choice to have it, and they will want it more, simply because they canât have it.
Hard to Get
Take a child who has no interest in a particular toy. Tell that child that he or she cannot have that toy, and suddenly the child wants it more. As adults, we are the same. We all seem to have an affinity to desire the preverbal âforbidden fruit.â
For some reason, that which is harder to obtain, has more value when possessed. Hence, a cornerstone of relationship theology is that of the act of âPlaying hard to get.â A woman may believe that the more difficult it is for the man to gain her affection, the more he will desire and cherish it when obtained. And frankly, that philosophy is often correct.
Going with the Flow
Please understand that I am not going to try to explain the complexities of human nature, nor am I going to try to fully understand such. However, I know that there are ways to capitalise on this inherent human condition. My point is that perhaps you should learn to take advantage of a situation that already exists.
Depending on dozens of factors about what you sell, the type of selling you use to sell it and your sales funnel process; it may be helpful for you to, at some pre-planned point in your sales process, slightly to âtake awayâ the offer or opportunity from the prospect.
You may have been asking sales questions to pull out the problems and then pushing benefits and selling throughout the interaction; trying to get the prospect to accept the offer and to envision having it.
However, at some point, you may want to reverse that momentum and inform the prospect that maybe they canât have it.
Updated on: 19 April, 2012
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