Written by Sean McPheat | 

If only everyone was the same, it would make selling a lot easier. Just imagine if you could predict how they buy, their behaviour and their next move. We’d all have smiles on our faces as we went into our next sales interaction. Sadly, this isn’t the case. There are several different personality types that we have to sell to, and this requires us to flex our approach.
While every person is different, you will find that most prospective buyers fit into certain categories. We will examine how to recognise each one, and then provide tips on how to sell to them.
These tips, of course, are not concrete rules that apply to every personality and every situation. However, you will find that they provide a good overall view of commonalities in the different types of buyers that exist.
Some of these tips will also suggest that in some cases and at some point, you should terminate the sales process. You may feel that this is giving up or accepting defeat. No. This is about being smart and staying professional. You will not make every sale and you will not change the laws of psychics by sacrificing your time, money, and dignity.
Let’s start by a quick definition. According to Collins dictionary the term buyer means:
“A person who is buying something or who intends to buy it”
Prospective means:
“To describe someone who wants to be the thing mentioned or who is likely to be the thing mentioned”
Therefore, a prospective buyer can be said to:
“Be someone who is interested in buying something or who intends to buy”
1. The Assertive
2. The Paranoid
3. The Know-It-All
4. The Price Only
5. The Timid
6. The Joker

This buyer personality can be difficult to deal with. If you have been in the world of selling for any length of time, you have met this person. This is the prospect that interrupts you, is often rude or disrespectful, tries to antagonise you and seems to be someone who eats salespeople for lunch.
You need not too many tips on how to recognise this person, as it is usually quite clear. When come across one in a B2B sales setting it can be very challenging.
However, let us look at a few traits:
Assertive/Aggressive Buyer Traits
1. Has overly firm handshake. This person usually puts too much emphasis on a handshake, grasping hard and long.
2. Maintains deep and constant eye contact. The person will stare you directly in the eye with unwavering penetration. It is almost as if they are testing you to see who will look away first.
3. Sits forward and upright. Usually, will not lean back or take a relaxed posture.
4. Overly confident in self and accomplishments. Very sure of themselves.
5. Will begin to interrupt your presentation. This person will often interject your presentation with objections long before they should arise.
Assertive/Aggressive Buyer Tips
1. Do not change your personality to match, be yourself. This includes your handshake. Allow this person to have the stronger hand. This person often wants some control and if you begin to change, you are allowing the buyer to control you. Be yourself.
2. Keep your eye contact natural. You should always maintain good eye contact with everyone, but don’t go overboard and force unnatural eye contact. Don’t be intimidated to the point where you are afraid to look away. When asking questions and closing, get close and maintain steady eye contact.
3. Sit back and relax. This is one place where you want to adapt. If you are sitting with the person across from a desk or table, as this buyer leans forward don’t lean forward too, this will cause unnecessary challenges and tension.
4. Don’t patronise. Be careful not to patronise this person with condescending, phony complements and agreeing with everything he or she says. If anything, try not to be overly impressed.
5. Patience – then continue. Once again, you do not want to patronise this person.
Often this prospect will want to throw you off track or see if they can disrupt your normal flow. Address each question IF it is a question and continue with your normal sales process.
6. Don’t be overly friendly. This is the worst prospect to try to make friends with and try to get them to “buy you” first, false admiration and condescending comments are always a bad idea but will mean an instant closed lost with this person.
Summary
With the aggressive and overly assertive buyer, you want to be yourself. Maintain your composure and do not be moved. You want to give the person respect, but you want him or her to know that you are a professional and will do your job.

This person seems to be afraid of everything and trusts nothing and no one. It can be very difficult to find their sales hot buttons.
Paranoid Buyer Traits
1. Usually answers questions and comments with, “But…” As in, “I understand that, but what about this…”
2. Will see a negative possibility in almost everything
3. Wants proof and guarantees
4. Will have examples of bad experiences with competitors or industry
Paranoid Buyer Tips
1. Good question.
Answer and move on. Let the prospect know that the question or concern is valid.
Don’t linger or continue to ask if the customer fully understands.
Just answer clearly and continue.
2. Don’t try to alleviate unwarranted fears or phobias.
Address legitimate issues, but don’t give too much time to fears that are completely ridiculous.
If you fall into the trap of fighting ghosts and monsters that don’t exist, you will waste a tremendous amount of time and if by some stretch of the imagination, you happen to make the sale, this customer will be your worst nightmare.
Such a customer will cost you far more money in unnecessary service calls, unwarranted complaints, and imaginary problems than the sale is worth.
3. Address questions but don’t justify.
With this personality, most salespeople have the tendency to try to justify or prove everything they say. Answer questions clearly and completely but don’t try to justify your statements.
Truth needs no justification and the more information you volunteer, the more this person will turn it against you.
4. Don’t bash the competition.
This is a critical mistake. If the customer’s bad experience is something that you are aware of, then show how your company has risen above this problem.
If the customer’s complaint is something that appears to be an isolated incident, then don’t justify it by slamming the competition.
Let the customer know that it’s an isolated incident and that you are shocked to hear of it. Defend the competition and the integrity of your industry.
Summary
Don’t add fuel to the fire.

This buyer can also be very frustrating to deal with. This buyer believes that they know more about your product and company than you do and there is nothing in your presentation that provides any new information. This patient wants to tell the doctor what the prognosis and remedy is. They want to buy and will hate to be sold anything.
Know-It-All Buyer Traits
1. Will challenge or debate much of your claims
2. Will test your knowledge of details and industry information
3. Will claim to know more about your competition than you do, including prices
Know-It-All Buyer Tips
This buyer and the assertive/aggressive are similar. However, unlike the assertive buyer, this prospect needs the preverbal pat on the back.
Let the customer know that someone as educated in the industry as she always buys your product and the easiest sale your company will make.
1. Complement buyer on thinking
2. Congratulate buyer on ideas
3. Let buyer know that the educated consumer is best
Updated on: 20 November, 2017
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