Written by Sean McPheat | 

Let me say something that, on the face of it, may sound puzzling.
You learn more when things are going badly than when they are going well.
Go on, admit itā¦thatās an interesting statement (even if you donāt agree with it!)
What Iām referring to is the fact that no-one goes through life being successful every time.
The only way you can avoid failure is if you stay in bed all the time.
And even then you might fail to get up in time to get to the loo! (oops, failed again!)
Do you know anyone who has never failed?
Nor do I. So why are we so worried about failure?
Actually, weāre worried about failing because of the consequences.
We might lose the sale or get a rollicking from the boss or miss out on a promotion.
Yes, the consequences of failure can often be hurtful.
However, our attitude towards failure can often make the difference in the future.
As the saying goes, āItās not the falling over thatās the problemā¦.itās the not getting up again that causes the problems.ā
I like that quote because it proves that actions are the remedy to failure.
A failure only remains a failure if you donāt learn something from it.
If you learn something, itās an outcome that wonāt be repeated, so itās not classed as a failure.
So what can you learn when things go wrong?
You learn what not to do next time.
You learn how that particular person needs to be approached in the future.
You learn how to present better, matching product benefits with customer needs.
You learn what will make that person happy.
And you learn the difficulties that can be caused to a client if we get our service wrong.
In other words, if you learn from when things go wrong, the chances of the same thing happening again are vastly reduced.
Compare that with what you learn when things are going swimmingly.
You might see a long-time prospect become a new client.
Doesnāt that feel good? Of course!
Though if you tried the same technique with a different prospect, you might not get the same response.
No, the truth is that you can learn better lessons when things go wrong, because you can identify the rationale that caused you to make the mistake and you can ensure you put in strategies so it doesnāt happen again.
An old boss of mine said to me, āFail often. At least I know youāre trying. But make sure you learn your lessons well. Iād rather that than you try nothing in case you fail.ā
Iāve always remembered that, as it has given me the confidence to try out things that I might not have done before.
If I apply the idea that you should learn from failures, it guarantees I wonāt go down the wrong road twice.
Michael Jordan once said, āYou miss 100% of the shots you donāt takeā.
By taking the shot, missing, re-aligning, matching up, learning from what went wrong and applying those lessons, we stand a much better chance of hitting the next shot successfully.
Applying that dogma to sales, we see lots of failures magnified against the backdrop of poor results and we think we will never get better.
On the contrary, if we examine the way things are done and make sure they donāt get repeated in the same way, we canāt help but get better and aim higher.
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Happy Selling!
Sean

Sean McPheat
Managing Director
MTD Sales Training
Updated on: 23 April, 2018
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